I have the desire and urge to update my blog a lot more often than I actually do. I was feeling bad one day about it and was talking to a friend at work about how I didn't seem to have time to do the things I really wanted/needed to anymore, like work out or write.
He asked what all we did during the week so I pulled up my spreadsheet (yes, I have a spreadsheet) of our daily schedule. It starts with Jay leaving work work and me getting the girls off to school and ends with us alternating putting the girls to bed. Basically every day is filled in with stuff like "eat" and "give Sam a bath", plus the nine hours of practice Addi has at swimming each week and boring stuff like "sleep" and "work".
Then I said, "There's not much else other than all of the craft orders I get, having to fill those, plus any work meetings and volunteering we have at night, which is usually only once or twice a week. And Sam just started swimming each week and I signed up for a triathlon last week, so I'll start swim lessons again soon. Plus we have Addi's swim meets and Jay is leading a team for Knights of Columbus, so he will start to be more busy too. Other than that stuff, we aren't that busy. I cancelled a lot of my commitments this year like leading Girl Scouts and PTO."
I thought I didn't have a lot on my plate. My friend helped me see that I am lucky to not be in a corner rocking and moaning and basically, I need to give myself some grace and stop beating myself up for not getting it all done because sometimes "it" isn't that important in the end.
(written while I'm multi-tasking at Addi's swim practice)
Monday, December 8, 2014
This fall Jay took a chance and went pheasant hunting with some friends in South Dakota over a long weekend. The girls and I went to Addi's swim meet on Saturday, then relaxed and has a lazy day Sunday. While visiting a friend Sunday afternoon we noticed their enormous pumpkins out front. She told us about this great place she got them from, just a retired teacher out in the country, and how reasonable their stuff was. It was a nice afternoon out so the girls and I headed out to see what we could find.
|Just a little baby pumpkin (it brought out the thug in Addi)|
|Sam found one she liked as well|
An hour later we headed home with around 20 smaller pumpkins and gourds, a car full of corn husks, 3 large pumpkins (each in the 20 lb range), and a daddy pumpkin.
|$70 worth of pumpkins, gourds, and bugs|
This bad boy weighed in at a lean 97 lbs and had to be fork-lifted into the back of my SUV. The girls LOVED it and couldn't wait to surprise Jay with it when he got home. On the way home, we did find a slightly creepy drawback to impulse shopping for fall decor: corn husks are full of bugs and really shouldn't be inside an SUV. Within five minutes of being back on the road both girls were screaming and I was trying really hard not to drive off the side of the road as Addi shrieked that a HUGE spider was crawling towards me.
We made it home safely and after spending 20 minutes vacuuming my car, all was right with the world. Jay reacted just like we thought he would - he laughed, then begged us to confirm we didn't spend our life savings on soon to rot Halloween decor. Once he found out the "big" pumpkin was only $15, he laughed.
|Jay and his hunting buddies|
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